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Talent Is Overrated

Wednesday, January 21st, 2009

Growing up, I spent way too much time and energy worrying about whether I was talented — hoping that I was some kind of genius, but fearing that I was a complete fraud.

Now that I’m older, I’ve come to understand that the truest indication of talent is the ability to pour an endless amount of time and attention into something.

Unfortunately, I had it all backwards — I grew up thinking that spending as little time as possible on something and doing reasonably well at it was a sign of talent.

But that’s not talent.  That’s ego.

Advice to Young Asians: Ching-Chonging

Monday, June 23rd, 2008

Being Ching-Chonged by mean white kids with loud, ugly laughs is no fun.

How do you get them to stop?  You can’t.

When are you going to get even?  Probably never.

How do you keep it from hurting?  I wish I knew.

Keep yourself safe.

Be good to your family.  Be good to your friends.  Be good to yourself.

And then, through some miracle, you look up, and it’s 10 years later.  Then 20.

And you’re okay.